Stay connected with people who inspire, nourish and bring out the best in you. It takes time to pull yourself together and to heal if you have been hurt, humiliated, or become emotionally broken because of what you have gone through. You can become disconnected with the real you and forget who you really are. It is necessary to read, listen and focus on positive things. Things that strengthen your mind, develop your confidence and fortify your spirit. Create a strategy that will allow you to rid your life of people whose only intention is to strip, destroy, or take you down.
In times of adversity, fight back! Look your problems and challenges in the eye and say “I will not be moved.” Cry tears of defiance if you must. Don’t pray that the obstacles will be removed. Pray for strength to remove them yourself. Dig down deep inside and stand firm in the face of all that is coming against you with a mindset that “victory is mine”.
Be aware that there are certain situations that are just not good for you. Make a conscious, deliberate effort to focus your mind exclusively on things that will build you up, give you hope and expand the possibilities in all dimensions of your life. You have the capacity and the ability to rebuild your life. What you have gone through can be used to develop another part of yourself. Stay connected with positive people with the knowledge that you will get through this.
Challenge yourself. In order to do something you have never done, you have to become someone you’ve never been. In ordert o achieve this learn to take initiatives and have resiliency. Because there are going to be obstacles on the way that you have to overcome. It also requires sacrifice. What are u willing to give up? If you are truly serious you need discipline. Discipline is thr willingness to do the things that you do not like to do. But you know it will lead you in the direction of capturing your dreams.
You also need support. You can’t do it by yourself. Fight harder to turn your situation around. Turn up the heat. Develop a defiant attitude. Refuse to give in and surrender. Ask for help ~ not because you are weak, but because you want to remain strong. And ask for help and don’t stop until you get it.
You have something in you the world is waiting on. Bring it out!